Signs and Symptoms of Soul Ties

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(FEBRUARY 2016 BLOGS. Week 4)

SIGNS & SYMPTOMS OF SOUL TIES- Thanks to many who responded privately and openly on this week’s blog from Sunday. From personal experience, at times I have experienced faster deliverance and healing because I had knowledge or insight of what I wanted freedom from. For those who are/ being healed from the past, I share these as led of the Spirit and from teachings & study of this topic to help you identify potential areas you may examine for better healing: Here are some signs of soul ties

  • You are constantly thinking or have fantasies about this person
  • You are constantly thinking about this person even after they left and or despite you having another person. For example, if you are married /dating and still thinking and or wishing you were with your EX, you have a soul tie with the EX.
  • You have items from this person that you cannot get rid of because they keep you connected to the person even after they have left.
  • The person is your first contact for everything. This person knows your life like a book or you feel obliged to share everything with them.
  • You cannot make any major decision without consulting and getting approval from this person.
  • You look up to this person for affirmation,
  • You are needy of this person or the person makes you feel like you need them and cannot survive without them.
  • Your life and resources revolve around this person,
  • You give more (time, money or service) to this person and receive less or nothing from them. (Healthy Relationships should be reciprocated not one sided)
  • You sacrifice to give the person what they need while you stay in lack or at a stand still
  • Although the person has or may hurt you, you cannot get away from the person or see a way out. Instead, you rationalize and accommodate the person’s negative behaviors.
  • You are fearful of the person and you do whatever they ask you to do whether it does not make sense, whether it is unethical or harmful to you & others (this is a form of witchcraft)
  • With time, you may sense as though you are under the control of the person, Worse yet, the person controls, manipulates, threatens you for their benefit not yours. This is dangerous and are signs of witchcraft. (In my opinion, witchcraft is not limited to voodoo, white or black magic)
  • The person uses passive aggressive ways to entice you to meet their needs and you seem smitten by their tactics.

Caution- Intimate relationships and sexual interactions are not the only way soul ties can be acquired. ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP HAS THE POTENTIAL TO CREATE A SOUL TIE. Soul ties can be acquired through well-meaning people such as parents, siblings, co-workers, grandparents, aunts and uncles, persons of influence such as bosses, pastors, mentors or spiritual leaders. Unhealthy soul ties can be experienced in marriages also. SOUL TIES ARE GENDER NEUTRAL

Just remember that total dependence on a woman or man or anything and even YOURSELF is idolatry. The 1st Commandment “You shall have no other gods before God. (Exodus 20:3):

PRAYER-May God continue to heal and deliver you through this post today. Stay strong, God who has started healing you will bring this healing and deliverance to totality and completion. We will wrap up the blog on soul ties next week. I will also share some wonderful resources on this topic next week. A must have! Loves! Be encouraged, God is Faithful and Dependable.

Blessings and Love in Christ Jesus- Pauline

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God’s sure Love

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(FEBRUARY 2016 BLOGS. Week 3)

GOD’S SURE LOVE is for those who may think are unloved or rejected” for those who have been, dumped, used, exploited, frustrated, experienced broken engagements, the divorced and widowed.
Let us PURSUE HEALING THIS WEEK – Valentine’s day may have come to many as somber or depressive moments. The thought of lovers, engagements or weddings may leave some in utter pain of disappointment. These apply to males(brothers) or females(sisters)
Most human beings have a need for acceptance, belonging and love. To some of you who did not experience any of these, especially from childhood, we can be vulnerable by looking for acceptance love and belonging in wrong things, people and places. PLEASE DO NOT COMPROMISE UNDER THESE PRESSURE(S). SOME OF THE COSTS OF COMPROMISE ARE REALISTICALLY IRREVERSIBLE & PRACTICALLY DEADLY
I share these personal lessons; It is important that you heal completely before God promotes you to the next level. Whenever God shuts the door, it is for better and greater things. If satan shuts the door, it is always temporary because God has the Upper Hand. God ALWAYS restores and recompenses. SEE the perfect stories of Joseph, Job, Daniel, the widow who was supplied with more oil, Jesus multiplying out of lack, to left -over 12 baskets of food.
PRAYER- Father in the name of Jesus, forgive me for not loving myself. I release anger, bitterness and unforgiveness against past lovers. By the Blood of Jesus, I break ALL soul ties with past lovers or any man or woman who has betrayed, lied to me, used me, sexually abused me, molested me, physically and emotionally abused me. I forgive all of them and divorce the soul ties that have caused me pain, disappointment, anger, depression, loneliness and neediness. Jesus, I embrace your acceptance, I accept your love. I receive the joy and peace of the Holy Spirit. I am healed, I receive your rest. In Jesus Name-Amen
Now that you have cut off soul ties, delete the phone numbers, photos and or GET RID OF anything that would make you reconnect mentally, physically, spiritually or emotionally with that person (s)
SOAK IN GOD’S LOVE-God’s comfort, restoration and power is really captured in Psalms. Read the whole book of Psalms this week. From Psalms Chapter 1 to 150. BE RESTORED. Be encouraged, God is Faithful and Dependable.
Blessings and Love in Christ Jesus- Pauline

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Nothing can or will separate us from the love of God

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(FEBRUARY 2016 BLOGS. Week 2)

NOTHING CAN or WILL SEPARATE YOU FROM THE LOVE OF GOD. No worst sin, no imperfection, no man, no woman, no clergy, no situation, no nation, no principality, no death nor life, not present things or things to come can separate you from the Love of God.

  • God loves each of us unconditionally and ever present, enduring forever
  • His Love for us is IRREVOCABLE
  • He loves us the way we are, because He created in His own image.
  • God is Love; He is personified in us through Love
  • His Love brings, joy and inner peace, not the contrary
  • God’s Love for us manifests in His protection of us, His Defense & Deliverance, His healings and salvation, His restoration and Restitution
  • His Love, is a preservative love; we are His Chosen Treasures, Apples of His eyes, set apart for Him, engraved in the palm of His Hands, God’s Beloved
  • God’s love extends to Royalty, Peculiarity, Uniqueness, fearfully created, that is what we are in Him
  • He enjoys our fellowship, worship and praises. In term, He rejoices over us with singing and praise
  • God’s love is very closer than that of a sister, brother or parent
  • His love is very accommodating, embracing and welcoming. He calls each us by our names, apparently, we are also His friends
  • He has no restriction as to when we can contact Him or address Him. He is ever present in the time of need.
  • In Him we are never alone, though occasionally lonely, in those moments, He is still there as the Omnipresent God, the Comforter and Counsellor; the Person of the Holy Spirit
  • His Loves shows up as our Redeemer, Savior and Friend
  • We are ever in the company of the Highest God, Jesus Christ who constantly intercedes for us and the Holy Spirit. This is the magnitude of the Love of God. In addition, to giving us His Son to die for us, God has also afforded us unselfishly; His
  • Fullness. That as His Children we have accessibility to The Trinity.

Our God is the Ultimate Love. GOD LOVES US. Whenever God sees us, He says I love you. RECEIVE, ACCEPT GOD’s LOVE Today. EMBRACE this Love this entire week. The one the Lord loves, rests upon His shoulders. Happy Valentine’s day. Happy Valentine’s week.
Be encouraged, God is Faithful and Dependable.
Blessings and Love in Christ Jesus- Pauline

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Keep the doors shut from Soul ties

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(FEBRUARY 2016 BLOGS. Feb 5th posting)

KEEP THE DOOR SHUT FROM SOUL TIES- Last week we released and cut off soul ties. This week we are keeping the door shut. Do not reestablish a covenant with what you have been delivered from for these reasons:

  • You have just cleaned house. You know need to receive the fullness of the Holy Spirit in order to experience the fullness of Christ. The Holy Spirit who is the ever flowing River, will refresh, sooth and continually heal you till you are completely whole. You also need the Holy Spirit because your own efforts of the flesh will fail. It is not by might (our own abilities or talents), but by the Spirit says the Lord (Zechariah 4.6).BE FILLED WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT
  • If you keep yourself empty, the one you denounced, kicked out, cut off will return with 7 more others. Your condition will be worse the second time around than before (Matthew 12:43-45). Have you ever noticed that if you left something for a while, when exposed to it later you crave or take more of it? That like me and cheesecake. I’ve avoided strawberry cheesecake for quite a while now, but it you give me a whole cheesecake pie, I can eat the whole cake in one seating. Same principle applies, the person you let back in maybe more destructive, abusive, exploitive than before. KEEP THE DOOR SHUT!

STEPS TOWARDS FREEDOM

  • Self-examination, self-reflection and decision – The first step to any deliverance and repentance is to do these 3 things. If you are the SOUL TIER, you must release whomever you have tied down/up. Reasons for tying others down stem from underlying rejection, insecurity, low self-esteem or low self-worth and laziness; but the main issue is actually Fear. Then you must want the deliverance. Please do not seek help if you are not serious about the help.
  • PRAYER. – With Christ and the Holy Spirit in you, be assured that you can pray for your own deliverance initially. So first we have to repent for the part we played in these soul ties. 2) Renounce and denounce (cut the off, have nothing to do with them), 3) revoke, cancel, cut off any covenant they have with you or your resources.4) Command them out of your mind, spirit, body, body organs, heart and emotions 5) receive the Holy Spirit, receive healing. 6) embrace God’s love. 7) walk in your freedom and keep the door shut! These are initial areas you can pray about.
  • Seek additional prayer from your pastor or a respectable and credible deliverance minister. I would not recommend deliverance prayer through social media. My other caution is to only seek deliverance prayer if you want deliverance and tired of what has held you down; but if still intend to reach out to whoever you kicked out, please hold off till you are ready. You will save both the pastor and you some valuable time

RESOURCES- Ungodly Soul Ties by Pastor Nellie-Shani (CD/DVD- Purchase online)-Highly recommend this (2)-Biblical Healing and Deliverance (Book by Chester and Betsy Kylstra (Book- This is a must read for all believers). (3) Open my Heart, Lord- Healing for the broken hearted- Kathi Oates with Robert Paul Lamb (book). 4)Curses and Blessings- Derek Prince 5) Curse-Proof in Christ, a free download from www.jonsnyderministries.com

By his stripes we WERE healed, this includes emotional and mental healing. Walk in the fullness of your healing and freedom. Whatever you do, KEEP THE DOOR SHUT
Be encouraged, God is Faithful and Dependable.

Blessings and Love in Christ Jesus- Pauline

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My Love Story

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(FEBRUARY 2016 BLOGS. Week 1)

MY LOVE STORY-This week I will share my personal testimony of how Love continues to sustain me in life. God is Love.
Words of Affirmation. I have seen Love assure from my childhood that I am His own. I have seen Him strengthen and encourage me when there was no one to turn to. I have heard Love speak encouragement and cheer me to pull through. I have seen Love talk on my behalf as an Advocate. I have seen Love prophesy over me and confirm His Words to me. On the morning of Dec 19th, 2013, I heard Love tell me very audibly, “The Almighty God is my (Pauline’s) Father”.

Acts of Service- I have seen Love fight fiercely for me and my family. I have heard of Him show up as a watchman dressed in white guarding our home in the slums of Kenya at night. I have seen Him offer warnings and counsel through dreams, visions and audible disclosures. I have seen Love pull me up from the depths of darkness and anchor me on a cliff of a Rock. I have seen Love preserve my life and the lives of my siblings from the evil plot of the destroyer. Oh I have seen Love commanding that we relocate ASAP before the angel of death destroyed a community. That night Love warned audibly through Bekki. I have seen Love make a way and show up at” my self-assigned last minute!” Oh, I have seen Love preserve me through the eyes of Grace and Mercy to still forgive and protect me although I was in sin. I have seen Love defiantly fight for me in spiritual warfare in 2010 and between April 2014 through January 2016. I have seen the Right Hand of Love (God). I have seen Love’s tolerance & patience of me

Receiving Gifts- I have seen Love restore my mind, soul and body. I have seen Love heal, deliver then refill afresh with Fresh Oil, Fresh Glory, Fresh Fire, Fresh Joy and Fresh Peace. I have seen Love resurrect dormant gifts, enhance existing ones and endow greater newer gifts. I have seen the FREEDOM OF LOVE. Recently, I experienced the Perfect Peace of Love. Then it dawned on me that this was the “peace that surpasses human understanding”. I now have it. Oh the TRANQUILITY OF THIS PEACE

Quality Time- I have seen Love birth a new hunger, I have seen Love demand for purity of intensions and commitment. I have seen Love cherish and discipline simultaneously. I heard Him calling with urgency to the prayer room and when I got there, I found Love waiting to minister. Oh I have seen Love minister for weeks in the car that often I had to pull over and wait till He was done because Love’s presence was so dense that I was subdued in His Glory. I have seen Love disrupt my agenda and routines because He wants to reveal something to me. I have seen Love teach, counsel, reveal to me and impart me. I have seen Love’s humor me, where we both laugh and I go “that was so funny Holy Spirit” or You crack me up Holy Spirit”. But then, I have also seen Love say or do something and I go “seriously God? “Really”, “that is not fair”; then conclude, “thank you Holy Spirit, I now see what you mean”. I have driven home from a long work day and found Love waiting for me in the living room.

Physical Touch-I have seen Love give me a memorable hug through an aging gentleman with special needs. I have seen Love show up with bouquet of flowers through a peer in the office. Have seen Love show up through loyal and committed pool of staff whom I am grateful for. I have seen Love show up in favor with man, with the employer, with friends and family. I have seen Love open greater doors and I have seen Love also shut doors dangerous doors despite me wanting to keep the dangerous doors open! I have seen Love heal me from great offenses, wounds and infirmity. I have seemed Love set my mind free of strongholds. I have seen Love impart me with great humor and free Spirit of utter joy, I have seen Love deliver me from fear and anoint me with boldness. I have seen Love raise me up to His lap and cuddle me in His comfort. One day in 2009, in response to a personal affirming statement, I heard Love say “and God Loves you (Pauline) too”. On that day, I embraced my new name; Beloved Polly. I HAVE SEEN GOD!

Be encouraged, God is Faithful and Dependable.

Blessings and Love in Christ Jesus- Pauline

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